Tuesday, March 11, 2008

The Historical History of the American Family

Often when I was a young child the “American Family” consisted of a father, a mother and some children. This was the ideal family in the old days; many people lived and fantasized about the idea of having an ideal family. Mother’s throughout history played a key role in the make-up of American family. Her role was that of homemaker, mother and comforter and most of all a noble wife. Today however the times have changed, now it is nobler to aspire to be successful professional women. It is almost as if the historical views of women are negative or old fashioned. The traditional family has even suffered a huge blow; families are now in a critical state or condition. Many families in present history are single parent house holds meaning either mom or dad and not both. Other families are either two women as parents of kids. Some are even two men as parents of kids; the effect of how this has impacted the society is apparently evident. It is my beliefs that our children are the ones who are really lose in this present day’s history. Women are important in the work place, yet it is note worthy to mention that they are absolutely critical in the historical growth of children and family. We Americans must ask ourselves what is more important to manufacture healthy families or to manufacture the ultimate business woman? What costs will the future children have to pay?

2 comments:

Andrea Kelly-Zimmerman said...

I agree that society today seems to critize a woman for staying home. Althgouh there are still some women who prefere to stay with their children and raise them while the father works I see moms doing more and more every day. Almost to the point where they do more work thatn the father. I also find it imtimidating for men as well. Most men like making more than their wives. I know it makes my husband feel more like a provider for our family knowing he makes more money than I do and frankly it doesn't bother me at all. I like haveing him take conttol of the bills will I take care of the family. The difference is he includes me and he makes sure I know what's going on with our finaces. I think that is also a problem today with families.

ARREYTON BRITT said...

the way you are raised depends on how you will turn out in the future. it doesnt matter if u are a single parent or a family